When your child melts down at the smallest correction, covers their ears when you name a feeling, or says "don't say that!" when you try to help, shame might be what's driving it.
The Shame Spiral Workshop shows you how to spot shame hiding behind control, crumbling at mistakes and shutting down, and what to say in the moment so it doesn't keep spiralling.
1000+ parents have taken this workshop
Introducing
The Shame Spiral Workshop
Say goodbye to overreacting, tiptoeing, or second-guessing every response, and say hello to calm, confident parenting rooted in real understanding. This eye-opening, practical three-part workshop ensures you know how to respond to shame-driven behaviour without making it worse.
The truth
Understanding and responding to your child's shame is the #1 way to transform difficult behaviours and build a deeper, more secure relationship that lasts for life.
In fact, recognising and interrupting the shame spiral is the answer to:
Easing the need to get everything right, taking responsibility, and building lasting confidence.
And if that wasn't reason enough to pay attention...
Did you know?
You can help your child build true resilience, the kind that can weather frustration, failure, and feedback.
You stop accidentally fuelling shame through even well-meaning corrections.
And you get to step out of the exhausting pattern of tiptoeing, overexplaining, or second-guessing yourself.
All in all? Understanding shame might be the single most powerful shift you can make in your parenting, and this workshop gives you the roadmap.
Buuuuuuuuuuut...
If you don't know how to respond to shame-driven behaviour, things just keep spiralling. Annnnnnnd:
You might be stuck trying things that just don't work for YOUR child.
You might be watching your child say awful things about themselves or push you away when you're trying to help.
And you're likely desperate to respond in a way that actually helps, but don't know what that is.
A common misunderstanding is that when your child melts down, tries to control everything, or crumbles at the slightest correction, that it is bad behaviour, the truth? It's shame.
It's shame.
And all this? Has probably got you feeling exhausted and unsure. You want to feel confident in those hard moments, but without understanding shame, it's nearly impossible to respond in ways that create safety.
And the longer shame goes unchecked? The more it chips away at your child's confidence, resilience, and self-worth. It doesn't have to be that way. And that's exactly what this workshop will show you.
Inside this workshop, you'll learn
Three things that will change everything
Built on my Before, During, After blueprint, the same one I use with my private clients.
How to Spot Shame
Even when it doesn't look like shame.
How to Respond
Without adding more shame.
How to Build Shame Resilience
So your child feels safe, seen, and capable, even in hard moments.
Imagine how it will feel to go
From this
Your child spirals after a mistake.
You spend so much energy trying to avoid triggering another meltdown.
You've tried "stay calm," "just connect," or "validate their feelings" but nothing works.
To this
You meet those moments with calm clarity and your child begins to believe in their loveability.
You see how shame is fuelling their behaviour and you start communicating differently.
You have tools that actually work because they target what's behind the behaviour and deal with the shame.
Say hello to a new way to support your child (and yourself)
The Shame Spiral Workshop
The practical, perspective-shifting three-part workshop to help you recognize, respond to, and reduce shame in your child, so you can apologize, heal perfectionism and increase their ability to handle losing.
Everything you need
What's inside the Shame Spiral Workshop
The 3-Part Workshop
Value $97
Say goodbye to confusion about your child's baffling behaviours.
Inside this three-part workshop, you'll discover:
- Finally UNDERSTAND how your child has been experiencing the world.
- The "Before, During, After" blueprint to build shame resilience.
Workshop On the Go
Included free
Can't sit down and watch? You've got options:
- Full audio access to all three parts, delivered right to your favourite podcast app.
- Listen on your commute, on a walk, or while you're making dinner.
- Watch when you can, listen when you can't.
The Companion Resource
Included free
This companion resource turns learning into action:
- Clear examples of shame-fuelled behaviours and how to respond.
- Simple scripts and phrases to use when shame is triggered.
- Reflection prompts to personalize the "before, during, after" framework to your family.
- Your cheat-sheet for handling tough parenting moments with calm, clarity, and connection.
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Get All of This Today
$97 USD
Only
$27 USD
Instant access to the three-part workshop + podcast feed + bonus companion guide
I'm READY FOR ALL THIS!Results like these are waiting for you
Here's what other parents have to say about the resources....
Your guide
I'm Myla
Before I coached parents, I was a kindergarten teacher. Every year, a few kids took most of my energy, and the usual tools didn't reach them.
I specialize in helping parents of kids who have big behaviours, and don't respond to the typical "validate and take a breath" parenting advice, and see the parents I work with move from reactivity to calm, confidence, and real connection.
I created the Shame Spiral Workshop because most parenting advice simply doesn't address what happens after the hard moment. You need more than "repair and move on." You need to understand why the shame spiral happens and how to actually break the cycle.
This gives you the exact tools I teach my private clients, distilled into short, practical steps you can actually use in real time. Because the tools you've been given weren't built for this.
I'm READY FOR ALL THIS!
"I've never seen the connection to shame made before, and so many things just clicked."
Is this workshop right for you?
Let's find out
You're a parent of a child who melts down, pushes back, or shuts down, and:
- You are trying to avoid triggers, but the smallest thing sets them off.
- You've tried strategies before, but nothing seems to actually work for your kid.
- You want simple, realistic steps you can fit into your day, not hours of homework.
- You long for a calmer home, a child who is thriving.
What parents are saying
"This workshop changed my life with my kiddo"
"it feels like the key to all of my kid's challenging behaviors."
Ready to understand your child?
The Shame Spiral Workshop
Get instant access today and finally have the understanding and tools your family needs.
Get All of This Today
$97 USD
Only
$27 USD
Instant access: three-part workshop + podcast feed + bonus guide
I'm READY FOR ALL THIS!